Alright, queen, let’s get one thing straight: if he walked away, that’s his loss, not yours. But let’s be real, sometimes you just want him to realize what he’s missing. And guess what? You’re about to become so unapologetically you that he’ll be kicking himself for letting you go. Buckle up, because we’re diving into 5 simple ways to make him regret losing you (while you’re out there living your best life).
1. Glow Up Like Your Life Depends on It (Because It Kinda Does)
Let’s start with the obvious: glow up like you’re the main character in a Netflix teen drama. Hit the gym, try that new skincare routine, or finally rock that bold lip color you’ve been too scared to try. This isn’t about him, it’s about you. But let’s be honest, when he sees you thriving and looking like a snack, he’s going to wonder why he ever let you go.
Pro tip: Confidence is the ultimate glow-up accessory. Wear it like it’s couture.
2. Become the Girl Who’s Always Busy (Because You Are)
Nothing screams “I’m over you” like a packed schedule. Join a club, pick up a new hobby, or finally start that side hustle you’ve been dreaming about. When you’re too busy crushing your goals to even think about him, he’ll start to realize you’re not sitting around waiting for him to come back.
Bonus: You’ll actually be doing cool stuff, so it’s a win-win.
3. Flaunt Your Happiness (But Keep It Authentic)
Post that pic of you laughing with your friends. Share that story of you acing your presentation. Let the world see how happy you are, not because you’re trying to prove something, but because you arehappy. When he sees you living your best life without him, it’s going to sting.
Remember: The best revenge is a life well-lived.
4. Be Kind (Yes, Really)
Here’s the plot twist: kill him with kindness. Be polite, smile, and don’t stoop to petty drama. When you’re the bigger person, it shows you’ve moved on, and it’ll drive him crazy wondering why you’re not bitter.
Plus, being kind feels good. Who doesn’t love a good karma boost?
5. Date Yourself (Yes, You Read That Right)
Take yourself out for coffee, buy yourself those shoes you’ve been eyeing, or spend a weekend binge-watching your favorite shows. When you start treating yourself like the prize you are, you won’t even care if he regrets losing you, because you’ll be too busy loving your own company.
Spoiler alert: When you love yourself, everyone else will too.
You’re the Prize, Remember?
Here’s the tea: you don’t need him to regret losing you to know your worth. But if he does? Consider it a bonus. The real goal is to become the best version of yourself, for you. So go out there, slay, and let the world see what you’re made of.
Now it’s your turn: What’s one thing you’re going to do this week to show yourself some love? Drop it in the comments, we’re all in this together.