Let’s be real: texting is basically the lifeline of every friendship. It’s how we make plans (or cancel them), share memes, and spill the tea. But what if your texts are secretly destroying your friendships? Gasp! You could be committing texting sins without even knowing it. Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Here are nine texting mistakes you need to stop making ASAP!
1. The “Dry Texter” Epidemic
If your idea of responding is “K” or “lol,” congrats, you’ve officially become the human equivalent of a wet sock. No one likes a dry texter! Give your friends something to work with. A little enthusiasm goes a long way.
2. Ghosting (But Not in a Cool Way)
We all get busy, but if you leave your friends on read for days, you’re basically telling them they rank somewhere between expired yogurt and algebra homework. Even a quick “BRB, life is wild rn” is better than nothing!
3. The Over-Texter Attack
Sending ten texts in a row without giving your friend a chance to respond? It’s like verbally screaming in their face, except worse because their phone won’t stop buzzing. Let’s chill, okay?
4. The Passive-Aggressive Texts
“Oh, I guess you’re too busy to answer.” “Wow, didn’t realize I was texting a ghost.” Girl, stop. Guilt-tripping is not cute. If they’re not answering, assume they have a life outside their phone (shocking, I know).
5. “Typing…” But Never Sending
We see those three dots. We know you’re typing. And then… nothing? The emotional rollercoaster is too much. If you start typing, just commit and send the message!
6. Sending a Novel-Length Rant
If your text looks like an entire Harry Potter chapter, it’s too long. No one has the patience to read a full-on essay. Break it up or (gasp) just call them instead.
7. Only Texting When You Need Something
If the only time you text is to ask for favors, whether it’s notes for class or a last-minute ride, you’re not a friend, you’re a walking to-do list. Friendships should be mutual, not transactional!
8. Forgetting to Match Their Energy
If your friend is sending you hyped-up texts with exclamation points and emojis, and you respond with “ok,” you’re basically throwing water on their excitement. Read the room (or in this case, the text) and match the vibe!
9. Being the “Vanisher”
One minute, you’re chatting nonstop. The next? Gone for weeks with no warning. If you tend to disappear without a trace, don’t be surprised when people stop reaching out. A simple “Hey, I’m taking a break but ILY” would save so much drama.
So, how many of these texting crimes have you committed? (No shame, this is a safe space.) Drop a comment below and tell me the worst texting habit you’ve ever encountered. And hey, if you have a friend who needs to see this… you know what to do.