Alright, ladies, let’s talk about something we all know too well: the toxic ex. You know, that walking red flag you swore you were so done with, but then he texts you, “I miss you,” at 2 AM, and suddenly, you’re considering throwing your self-respect into the nearest trash can. STOP RIGHT THERE.
Before you even think about unblocking him, read these eight brutally honest reasons why going back is a huge mistake. (And yes, you deserve better.)
1. He’s Not Sorry, He’s Bored.
If he really felt bad about how he treated you, he’d have changed while you were still together, not after you left. The “I miss you” text? That’s just him running out of girls to entertain. You’re not his emotional support system, queen.
2. You’re Not a Recycle Bin for His Guilt.
He made his choices. He hurt you. And now that he’s feeling lonely, he wants to come back? No, ma’am. You’re not responsible for cleaning up the emotional mess he created.
3. He Knows How to Manipulate You.
A toxic ex is like a magician, he knows exactly which words to use to make you question reality. “I’ve changed,” “I’m nothing without you,” “I was just going through a hard time”… Girl, he’s playing the same old tricks.
4. Your Growth > His Empty Promises.
Think about how much you’ve grown since you walked away. You’re glowing. You’re thriving. Why would you go back to the guy who made you cry over a Snapchat streak?
5. Your Friends Will Judge You (And Rightfully So).
You know that group chat where your friends hyped you up when you left him? Yeah, they’re not going to be happy when they see you back with Mr. Bad Decisions. Save yourself the embarrassment.
6. The Drama Is Not Worth the Nostalgia.
Yes, the good times were good, but the bad times? TRAUMATIC. Don’t let a few cute memories trick you into re-entering the circus.
7. The Closure You Want? You Won’t Get It.
He’s not coming back to give you the grand apology you dream about. He’s coming back because he thinks you’ll take him back. That’s it. Close that chapter yourself.
8. Future You Will Thank You.
Imagine a version of yourself who never went back, who stayed strong, and who is now dating someone who actually respects her. That’s the future you deserve.
The Bottom Line: Block. Delete. Move On.
The past is in the past for a reason, and your future is so much brighter without him in it. Now, tell me, what’s the most ridiculous thing a toxic ex has ever said to win you back? Drop it in the comments so we can all laugh (and heal) together.