Okay, bestie, let’s get real. You’re out here catching feelings, daydreaming about your future wedding playlist, and doodling his initials in your notebook. But something feels…off. One day he’s all over you, and the next? Poof! Vanished like your motivation to do homework.
If you’re feeling confused, played, or just straight-up exhausted from decoding his mixed signals, listen up. Here are six major signs he’s playing you and, more importantly, how to walk away with your crown intact.
1. He Only Texts When It’s Convenient for Him
Ever noticed how he ghosts you for hours (or days) but magically reappears when he’s bored? Maybe it’s late at night, or he just saw your fire Insta post. Newsflash: If he only hits you up when it suits him, you’re not a priority , you’re an option.
Queen Move: Stop replying to his last-minute texts. If he really cares, he’ll put in the effort. If not, thank u, next.
2. He Acts Different Around His Friends
Alone, he’s all sweet words and heart-eye emojis. But in front of his boys? It’s like you barely exist. If he downplays your relationship or acts like you’re “just a friend,” girl, run.
Queen Move: Confront him. If he’s too embarrassed to claim you, he doesn’t deserve you.
3. He Makes Promises…and Breaks Them
“I’ll call you later.” Never happens. “We should totally hang out this weekend.” Ghost mode activated.
If his words and actions don’t match, that’s not a miscommunication; that’s manipulation.
Queen Move: Believe patterns, not promises. Actions speak louder than whatever nonsense he’s selling.
4. You Feel Like You Have to Chase Him
If texting him first, double-texting, and analyzing his every emoji is now your full-time job, resign immediately. A real one won’t make you beg for attention.
Queen Move: Stop chasing. When you pull back, the right guy will step up. The wrong one? He was never meant for you anyway.
5. He Flirts With Everyone
If he’s out here throwing heart emojis around like confetti and calling every girl “bestie” with a winky face, guess what? You’re not special to him , you’re just part of his roster.
Queen Move: Demand exclusivity. If he can’t give it, leave him with the other girls he’s entertaining.
6. He Avoids Talking About the Relationship
Whenever you try to DTR (define the relationship), he suddenly becomes Shakespeare. “Let’s not label things.” “I just wanna go with the flow.” Girl, that’s code for “I want the benefits without the commitment.”
Queen Move: Know your worth. If he can’t step up, step out.
How to Walk Away Like a Queen
Step 1: Cut Him Off (Cold Turkey!)
No more late-night texts, no more waiting for him to “change,” no more settling. Unfollow, mute, and remove his number. It’s time to reclaim your peace.
Step 2: Level Up Your Life
Focus on yourself, your goals, your friendships, and your glow-up. A queen doesn’t sit around crying over a clown.
Step 3: Find Someone Who Deserves You
There are real kings out there who will treat you like royalty. Never settle for a court jester.
Final Thoughts: Choose You, Always
If he’s making you question your worth, it’s time to drop him like a bad habit. You deserve someone who adores you, not someone who plays you like a game.
Have you ever dealt with a player before? Spill the tea in the comments!