Ladies, we’ve all been there. You’re crushing HARD, but the more you text, snap, and subtly stalk his Instagram stories, the LESS he seems to care. Ugh. The struggle is real. But don’t worry, I got you! If you want him thinking about you non-stop (without looking like you have zero chill), keep reading.
1. Become a Mysterious Queen
Look, I know it’s tempting to spill every detail of your day in his DMs, but let’s be real, guys love a little mystery. If you’re always available, he won’t feel the need to chase you. Instead of instantly replying, take a beat. Leave some things unsaid. Make him wonder, “What’s she up to?” Mystery = intrigue. Intrigue = obsession.
2. Live Your Best Life (For Real, Not Just for Insta)
Nothing is more attractive than someone who’s genuinely thriving. So, instead of waiting around for his text, go out and do YOU. Hang with friends, pick up a new hobby, and actually enjoy life. Post a bomb pic now and then (no sad girl selfies, please), and let him see that you’re a whole vibe, with or without him.
3. Give Him a Taste of His Own Medicine
If he’s the type to take hours to text back, don’t be the girl responding in 0.2 seconds. Take your time, keep him guessing, and match his energy. It’s not about playing games, it’s about setting the standard that you’re not waiting around for him.
4. Smell Like a Dream He Can’t Forget
Listen, scent memory is real. Ever smelled a random candle and got hit with flashbacks of your childhood bedroom? Exactly. Find a signature scent (something warm and irresistible), and let him associate it with you. Next time he catches a whiff of vanilla, coconut, or whatever magic you wear, BAM, he’s missing you.
5. Disappear (Just a Little)
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, babe. If you’re always texting, always available, always there, he won’t have a chance to miss you. So, be a little busy. Skip a couple of his social media posts. Give him space to realize how much he likes having you around.
Final Thoughts: Don’t Be Thirsty, Be Irresistible
At the end of the day, the goal isn’t just to make him miss you, it’s to remind yourself that you’re the prize. Confidence is magnetic. Independence is hot. So go out there and be the girl he can’t stop thinking about!
What’s your go-to move for making someone miss you? Drop your best tip in the comments!