Girl, we need to talk. You know that one person who makes your stomach do gymnastics and your brain go on overdrive? Yeah, your crush. Instead of enjoying the excitement, you’re probably overanalyzing every emoji, replaying every convo, and stalking their social media like it’s your full-time job. Sound familiar?
Well, it’s time to chill. Overthinking won’t make them like you more, but it will turn you into a sleep-deprived detective obsessed with decoding ‘hey :)’. So let’s fix that. Here are 10 foolproof ways to stop overthinking and just enjoy your crush like a normal, functional human being.
1. Stop Playing the ‘What Did That Mean?’ Game
Your crush sent you ‘good morning’, so what? It doesn’t mean they’re secretly in love with you, nor does it mean they’re plotting your downfall. Take words at face value. If they like you, they’ll make it obvious. Trust me, no one in history has ever fallen in love because of a well-timed ‘hey’ text.
2. Your Crush Is NOT a Math Problem
You don’t have to ‘solve’ them. Stop analyzing how long they took to reply, how many exclamation marks they used, or why they watched your story but didn’t like your post. They’re a person, not a cryptic puzzle.
3. Focus on Living, Not Lurking
If you’re spending more time on their social media than on your own life, it’s time to unplug. Go do something fun, pick up a hobby, or just touch some grass. The more you focus on your happiness, the less their every move will control your emotions.
4. Stop Writing Your Future Wedding Vows
Daydreaming is cute… until you’re planning your children’s names when they haven’t even asked for your Snapchat. Enjoy the present without spiraling into an imaginary future. Because guess what? They’re not doing the same about you.
5. Confidence Is More Attractive Than Caution
You’re overthinking because you don’t want to mess up. But guess what? The best way to make a crush notice you is to be confident, not perfect. So say what you want, laugh too loud, and stop filtering your personality like it’s a bad selfie.
6. Your Self-Worth ≠ Their Opinion
If they don’t text back fast enough, it doesn’t mean you’re boring. If they like someone else, it doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. Your value is not determined by someone who still doesn’t know their favorite pizza topping.
7. Talk to Them Like They’re… Normal
Stop rehearsing conversations like you’re about to present a TED Talk. Breathe. They’re just another person who probably has their own awkward moments too. Treat them like a friend instead of a Greek god you need to impress.
8. If It’s Meant to Be, It’ll Be (Without the Overthinking)
You don’t have to force anything. Love isn’t a science experiment where you need the perfect formula. If you’re meant to vibe, it’ll happen. If not, someone better will come along who actually texts first.
9. Laugh at Yourself
Seriously, your crush isn’t analyzing your every move the way you do theirs. So if you send a weird text or trip in front of them, just own it. Confidence and humor > worrying about looking silly.
10. Just Enjoy the Thrill!
Having a crush is supposed to be fun, not a mental breakdown in disguise. Instead of stressing, embrace the excitement. Smile when you see them, enjoy the butterflies, and let things unfold naturally. No stress, just vibes.
Now Tell Me… Which of these tips do you need to start using right now? Or do you have a hilarious overthinking story to share? Drop it in the comments, I promise we won’t judge (much)!