Alright, ladies, let’s talk about something absolutely soul-crushing (but fixable!): That awful, gut-wrenching feeling when you suspect he’s just not that into you anymore. One day, he’s sending you good morning texts with heart emojis, and the next, he’s replying with a dry “k.” Ouch.
So, what are the warning signs? And more importantly, how do you handle them like the queen you are? Buckle up, because we’re about to get real.
1. He Takes Forever to Text Back
You used to have full-blown texting marathons, but now? You send a message at 3 PM, and he finally responds at midnight with “sorry, was busy.”
What to Do:
Stop double-texting. Stop staring at your phone. Instead, start living your best life. Make him wonder why you’re not available.
2. He Cancels Plans Last Minute
You got all cute for date night, and suddenly he “forgets” or “something came up.” Hmm, suspicious.
What to Do:
Give him one pass. But if this becomes a pattern, call him out and remind him that your time is valuable.
3. He Doesn’t Compliment You Anymore
Remember when he used to tell you your hair looked amazing every day? And now? Crickets.
What to Do:
Stop fishing for compliments and start complimenting yourself. Confidence is magnetic, he’ll notice.
4. He’s Always “Too Busy”
Yes, we all have lives. But if he suddenly doesn’t have time ever, something’s up.
What to Do:
Match his energy. If he’s too busy for you, girl, you just became too busy for him.
5. Conversations Feel Forced
Once upon a time, you two could talk for hours. Now, he gives you one-word answers like he’s been possessed by the spirit of a brick wall.
What to Do:
Try asking open-ended questions. If he still won’t engage, then maybe he isn’t worth your energy.
6. He’s Always on His Phone (But Not Texting You)
He’s scrolling, laughing, and typing… but somehow, your messages sit unread? Make it make sense!
What to Do:
Resist the urge to overthink. Instead, keep yourself busy. Make him wonder who you are texting instead.
7. He Stops Making an Effort with His Appearance
No more cute date outfits, no more fixing his hair… it’s giving bare minimum energy.
What to Do:
If he’s comfortable, fine. But if he’s stopped trying completely, it might be a sign he’s emotionally checked out.
8. You Feel Like You’re Always the One Initiating
You’re the only one texting first, planning dates, keeping the convo going. Yikes.
What to Do:
Pull back and see if he steps up. If he doesn’t, you have your answer.
9. He’s Suddenly Super Irritable
Everything you do annoys him? Sis, it’s not you, it’s his fading interest showing itself in the pettiest way possible.
What to Do:
Don’t feed into the negativity. If he can’t communicate like an adult, that’s his problem.
10. You Just Feel It
Listen to your gut. If you know something feels off, you’re probably right.
What to Do:
Instead of stressing, confront the situation head-on. Ask him what’s up and be prepared for whatever answer you get.
Final Thoughts: Know Your Worth, Babe!
If he’s losing interest, don’t panic. You are not a backup plan, a second choice, or someone to be taken for granted. The right guy will be obsessed (in a healthy way, of course). If he can’t see how amazing you are, his loss.
Now tell me, have you noticed any of these signs in your situationship? Drop a comment below, and let’s talk about it!